How To Enjoy A Happy Life
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1. Try To Have A Good Time All The Time - Habitually happy people literally try to have a good time all of the time. They want to make the most of each moment. Normal people say, “Don’t be silly, you can’t expect to be happy or have a good time all of the time!” Habitually happy people reply, “I can try!” or, “With an attitude like that you never will be truly Up or happy!” We are at our best when we are happy. 2. Creatively Reinvent Boring, Difficult or Meaningless Tasks - Make work fun, turn boring chores into games, involve other people, plot your progress toward achieving long term projects, tie everything you do to meaningful goals. Celebrate success, your own and other people’s successes. Let a spirit of fun propel you to happiness and to ever greater achievements. 5. Move From Problems To Solutions Quickly - Good solutions are often very different from fixing problems. So long as we continue to focus on what's wrong, we’re often blocked from seeing good solutions. Habitually happy people move from problems to solutions quickly. 7. Don’t Beat Yourself Up, Criticize or Condemn Yourself - Beating yourself up just reinforces the errors you are trying to avoid. Channel regrets into positive meaningful actions that will strengthen your skills and help you build greater happiness and success in the future. 8. Revolt Against Anything That Tries To Get You Down - Cultivate irrepressible good cheer. Don’t hand control of your emotions, actions or attention over to negative people or to situations that try to down your spirits or control you. Rebel against negativity, practice emotional independence. 9. Avoid Excessive Self Concern - Continually energize your mind with interesting, intriguing thoughts and ideas. Habitually happy people don’t think about themselves all that much, they say excessive self concern is a major barrier to happiness and success. Focus your attention outside of yourself. Think about other people's feelings and perspectives. 10. Focus on Spiritual Success - If you summon up a genuine sense of fun and sparkle and then honestly project it, you can’t help but take on a better mood yourself. Try and touch each person you meet with a smile and a positive spirit. Live with great integrity, honesty and by only the highest and best values. |
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Copyright © 2005 - 2006, Michele Moore. All Rights Reserved. Michele Moore is author of the How To Live A Happy Life - 101 Ways To Be Happier which is available at book stores near you and through Amazon.com - see www.HappinessHabit.com for further information. She produces and co-hosts Happy Life TV and serves as CEO of Happiness Habit, Inc. Michele Moore writes and speaks on happiness, Sparkle!®, Effectiveness Engineering and Workplace Well-being from her offices in Atlanta. To learn more see www.MicheleMoore.com |
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